Bolton: Everyone faces what their own sexuality is and what will make them happy. Exploration in mind and body is key. They need to own their own sexuality because, really, it's their life. Be open and honest about sexuality – it's not pump and go, it's more than that. More importantly, be accepting of others and their sexuality, there is no natural form of it, all of that is hedged in society. Find experiences that are extremely pleasurable and joyful and just make sure it's within the realm of adult, consenting and mutually satisfying and you won't find yourself arrested.

Bolton: Well, it would be different for everybody but even the best sex done the same way every time gets stale and repetitive. Good sex requires creativity––change up the place, the mood, the setting and just try doing it differently.

Bolton: If there's one thing to remember, masturbation is having sex with someone you love. Well, at least it should be, or you've already got a problem. And unfortunately, masturbation is still ranked almost as sinful as murder in some religions. 90 percent of people masturbate and the other 10 percent are lying. Truthfully, if people were honest and open about them masturbating (on a regular basis) the world would be a much better place.

Bolton: You know, one of the major changes in U.S. sexuality this century was the acceptance of an oral sex culture. It should be encouraged as an…alternative to sex, you can't get pregnant and the danger of HIV infection is very, very low. There are many different kinds of oral sex—“sucking” is not the same as “face screwing” so use them with your discretion and there are most definitely people who are better than others. Most definitely.

Bolton: If more people were living truly satisfying sex lives the world would be a happier place. But, don't generalize, if sex isn't important to someone, then having an unfulfilling sex life is not a problem—it's just that those individuals are few and far between. Albeit masturbation, oral sex or any sex, if it's consenting, playful, safe, fun then it's okay by me. Be sex-positive and you should be all right.

To you Sagehens flying the coop, I applaud you for all your efforts in and out of the bedroom on campus. Remember, safety is key—STD's are dangerous and real and believe me, there are no worse things than warty genitalia. So get out there, show them how Sagehens do it, and make this world a happier place.

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